Sunday, December 20, 2009

Boy Vs Man

I personally feel that Man is more attractive than boy. You know, I would rather tell you guys my boyfriend is a man than my boyfriend is a......boy. From my knowledge, "Boy" is category at 30 and above and "man" is category as below 30.

From my opinion, man understand you clearly. They know how to respect the opposite sex and of course they provide what you need as well. Man know how to give an appropriate respond in a particular moment as to gain the good impression from you, at the same time, they helped you, too, when you're in trouble. They can fulfill what you need and provide what you suppose to "need".I'm not talking about the financial but the internal and external feelings. They know how to give confidence to the opposite sex and they make you feel "you're the BEST".They will talk polite and formal and girls or women will probably think that we're all in heaven. Like a normal incense, " you're so gorgeous tonight" will definitely melts the girls or women. They won't tell you,"you're so pretty or beautiful tonight" but they will just use the "gorgeous" word. Normally boys use pretty or beautiful to praise you but they don't know, girls or women prefer the word gorgeous than the million or billion times of pretty and beautiful from you.

Why do girl like "me" prefer man than a boy? Okay, from my own opinion, I found that most of my girl friends which are in couple, they facing a problem, a problem that seriously might cause their relationship split up, they feel their partner not tender and never show their consideration to them. Boy is just so careless and they'll never understand your decision and never respect your decision or whatever. This situation can be understand but not acceptable, because when they're confuse about your decision how can they still support you?Why unacceptable? Because they don't even try their best to understand you and as a boyfriend, is it you should respect your partner decision no matter what? just like girls always respect you and willing to sacrifice our sleeping time to accompany you for jogging or do whatever activities.Why don't you guys just sacrifice your a little bit time to understand and respect us? Contrary, man knows girls or women very well, they give support quietly or straight helping us in their action and at the end of the story, of course the girls or women will fall for the man even though she had no feeling to that man before. Do you know what I mean? This is the advantages we should rather choose a man instead of a boy.

Do not say "I don't know" in front of girls or women because you'll definitely show us your disadvantages. Girl like me, I do feel annoying when I am asking you a question seriously and hoping you would give me an actual and helpful answer but at the end you just tell me "I don't know". Why don't you guys just say " Let me think"? This is more appropriate when I am grim and need some help from you.Actually "let me think" is just the phrase to use to pacify and cover your helpless before you say out the 3 stupid words "I don't know".Even though I know that clearly, I mean, I know that you are actually helpless but I just need pacify, at least I can feel that you'd already tried your best to help me and not perfunctory me with 'I DON'T KNOW!

That is what I always emphasize, someone who're glamorous not because that he's good looking than you or he's kindness melt all the girls. He's glamorous because he know how to pacify and lend us a hand when we feeling helpless,even though at the end he help nothing at all but at least he let us know that no matter what, he still will lend us a hand even though he's helpless this time. This is where he gain his first and good impression from girls. They know how to control the conversation and give appropriate respond just in time. Man knows all these kinda stuff very well. That's why I prefer man than boy. And also, that's why I am still single now. Hahaha~!

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